Coob leej niam leej txiv, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog niam, ua tiav lawv cov zaub mov rau lawv cov menyuam. Nws yuav zoo li, yog dab tsi tsis ncaj ncees lawm nrog uas - muaj me ntsis yummy nyob hauv lub phaj, tsis txhob muab pov tseg. Tab sis nws hloov tawm tias qhov no tsis tuaj yeem ua tiav - ob qho tib si raws li kev ntseeg nrov thiab hauv kev xav ntawm kws kho mob. Nyeem rau vim li cas.
Pej xeem sawv daws naj npawb 1
Raws li cov cim, niam txiv lossis lwm tus neeg txheeb ze uas noj zaub mov rau menyuam yaus tshem nws lub zog, kev zoo siab lossis lub sijhawm nyob rau lub neej. Cov paib no tau tshwm sim puag thaum ub - txawm tias thaum pom tias khoom noj tseem ceeb, thiab nws txoj kev rho tawm feem ntau nyuaj. Cov neeg ntseeg hais tias ib tug neeg noj tsis yog lub cev xwb, tab sis kuj nquag. Yog li ntawd, lawv tau sim los suav cov feem kom nws tuaj yeem muab cov nqi tsim nyog ntawm lub zog rau tsuas yog ib tus neeg tshwj xeeb. Txhawm rau noj ntau - mloog qhov hnyav hauv plab, tsawg dua - kom tau txais qee yam tseem ceeb heev. Yog tias lwm tus noj ntawm "lub zog ploj" - nws yuav tsum tshem koj txoj kev ncua ntawd. Nws tsis muaj teeb meem leej twg ua nws - cov phooj ywg ze, cov neeg hlub, yeeb ncuab lossis niam txiv.
Pej xeem sawv daws naj npawb 2
Tus me nyuam, uas nyob hauv plab, noj lub sijhawm ntev heev los ntawm leej niam - nws tau txais zaub mov los ntawm txoj hlab ntaws. Tom qab nws yug los thiab pib loj hlob, nws tau pub mis niam, uas txhais tau hais tias nws txuas ntxiv kev sib raug zoo tshwj xeeb nrog tus neeg hlub. Thiab nws tseem yuav ua ntxiv mus kom txog thaum nws tiav hlo "tus kheej". Ntawm ib txhais tes, tau kawg, qhov no yog qhov zoo, tab sis ntawm lwm qhov, nws tsis yog qhov zoo heev. Yuav luag tag nrho nyob ntawm niam txiv, tus me nyuam yuav tsis muaj peev xwm tsim kev sib raug zoo nrog lwm tus nyob ib puag ncig nws thiab pib txiav txim siab ywj pheej. Thiab koj rub tawm lub sijhawm ntawm nws txoj kev sib raug zoo, ua tiav nws cov zaub mov tom qab nws. Tsis txhob ua lintawd!
Pej xeem sawv daws naj npawb 3
Tab sis yog tias muaj ob peb yam saum toj no vim li cas koj tuaj yeem ua tsis tiav noj mov rau menyuam yaus, xyuam xim rau daim paib thib peb - txaus ntshai tshaj plaws. Cov kws saib hnub qub hais tias txhua ntu muaj lub zog ntawm qee lub hnub qub. Tus me nyuam nqus nws nrog rau cov zaub mov thiab yog, raws li nws tau, programmed rau yav tom ntej zoo dua - kev kawm zoo, kev sib yuav zoo siab, hnub yug ntawm cov menyuam noj qab nyob zoo, thiab lwm yam zoo li, cov niam txiv uas ua tiav sau rau nws, zoo li "noj" lub neej ntawm lawv tus kheej cov menyuam, dooming nws rau khaum thiab swb …
Lub tswv yim ntawm cov kws tshwj xeeb - kws kho mob hlwb thiab khoom noj khoom haus
Yog lawm, koj tuaj yeem hais tias txhua yam no yog ntawv tseeb, hauv qhov tseeb nws tsis tuaj yeem kuaj xyuas. Txawm li cas los xij, "Thomas Cov Tsis Ntseeg" yuav tsum mloog lub tswvyim ntawm cov kws npliag siab. Raws li cov kws tshaj lij no, tus menyuam uas pom tias nws niam thiab txiv noj mov rau nws ua ib qho qauv tsis zoo. Nws pib hloov nws lub luag haujlwm rau lwm tus, sim xaiv tsuas yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws - uas txhais tau hais tias nws tau xaiv ntau dhau (qhov no kuj tsis zoo heev). Txij li thaum nws pom tias koj ib txwm muab nyob rau hauv, nws sim thov nws tus kheej hauv txhua yam - li no cov whims, muaj zog resentments, thiab lwm yam.
Tus xaiv khoom noj haus hais tias kev noj zaub mov rau menyuam yaus tsis zoo rau niam txiv lawv tus kheej. Ua qhov no, leej niam thiab leej txiv imperceptibly nce lawv tus kheej, thiab tom qab ntawd xav paub qhov twg phaus ntxiv los ntawm thiab vim li cas lub plawv phaus ntau heev thaum taug kev hauv taw ntaiv. Thiab tag nrho vim tias muaj cov li ib txwm ua dhau los thiab ncab lub plab. Yog li tsis txhob noj tom qab tus menyuam, tab sis nco ntsoov tias koj tsis tas yuav ua kom yauv noj ib yam. Yog tias koj tsis paub ntau npaum li cas ib tug me nyuam yuav tsum tau noj ib zaug ntawm tib lub vias, nrhiav tswv yim los ntawm tus kws kho menyuam yaus - nws yuav qhia koj.
