Txoj kev sim siab ua kom muaj kev sib hlub yog qhov zoo heev, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog thaum ib tus neeg tsis thov txog kev hlub thiab raug kev txom nyem los ntawm nws. Yog lawm, tsis yog txhua leej txhua tus yuav tig mus cuag tus kws txawj ua khawv koob kom tau kev pab: lawv tu siab rau nyiaj thiab lub sijhawm pub dawb, yog li cov neeg tsis muaj kev hlub nyiam ua rau tus hlub nyob ib leeg. Tsis muaj leej twg xav tau tiag tiag poob mus rau hauv lub zoov nuj txeeg tej yam yees siv, yog li feem ntau qhov kev xaiv poob rau ntawm lub npe hu ua "yooj yim", "tsis muaj teebmeem" lossis "tus phooj ywg" nyiam kev sib tw, uas koj tuaj yeem nyab xeeb xa mus rau kev hlub kev hlub ntawm tus luam yeeb
Vim li cas kev hlub nyob rau luam yeeb yog qhov txaus ntshai heev
Ntawm no koj xav tau reciprocity hauv kev hlub, tab sis tsis muaj. Koj pib raug kev txom nyem, txom nyem los ntawm kev tsis txaus ntseeg, quaj yam tsis muaj qab hau thiab npau taws rau tag nrho lub ntiaj teb tsis ncaj ncees. Tsis muaj leej twg tuaj yeem pab koj - nws txhais tau tias lub sijhawm tau tig los rau siab zog thiab thov kev pab. Nws tsis muaj teeb meem tias qhov kev hlub raug suav tias yog kev ua txhaum loj. Nej tsis tau mus ua dab thiab ua khawv koob yees siv. Is Taws Nem los txog txoj kev cawm, uas lawv yuav zoo siab qhia koj li cas koj tuaj yeem sai thiab nyab xeeb koj tus hlub ntawm koj tus kheej los ntawm kev haus luam yeeb ib tus luam yeeb. Txawm li cas los xij, txhua yam tsis yooj yim npaum li nws zoo li thaum xub thawj siab. Kev hlub sau tsis yog qaug zog thiab muaj kev nyab xeeb.
Raws li cov lus qhia rau kev coj tus cwj pwm nyiam kev nyiam thiab yooj yim, koj yuav tsum sau lub npe ntawm koj tus hlub rau luam yeeb thiab pleev nws nrog koj cov ntshav. Tom qab ntawd haus luam yeeb nws kom meej, tuav "tus kabmob" cancer hauv koj sab tes xis. Cov hmoov tshauv yuav tsum tau vau hauv sab tes laug. Thaum haus luam yeeb, koj yuav tsum xav txog qhov khoom ntawm koj lub siab hlob txhua lub sijhawm, koj tuaj yeem saib nws cov duab. Ntawm qhov kawg ntawm cov txheej txheem, cov luam yeeb taub yuav tsum tau muab tua tawm hauv qhov tshauv ntawm sab tes sab laug. Tam sim no koj yuav tsum tshuab tawm lub tshauv rau hauv qhov rai qhib nrog cov lus: "Txog thaum koj khaws txhua yam, koj yuav tsis tso kuv tseg." Yog tias cov hmoov tshauv tsis tawg tam sim ntawd, ces cov txheej txheem yuav tsum tau rov ua dua, txawm tias ob peb zaug.
Hauv qhov dav dav, rau qee qhov laj thawj no txoj kev hlub kev suav hais tias yog kev nyab xeeb. Qhov no nws yog ib tug loj misconception. Thaum lub caij ua kev lom zem no, haus luam yeeb, hmoov tshauv thiab ntshav tau siv, uas tau pom tias muaj zog heev tej yam yees siv txij li puag thaum ub los. Txhua yam yees siv ua ntawm cov ntshav muaj lub zog ua kom muaj zog. Luam yeeb kuj tau siv los ntawm shamans hauv lawv cov kev paub yees siv tau ntau txhiab xyoo. Thaum koj haus luam yeeb, koj nqus cov pa luam yeeb nrog koj cov ntshav, koj muab ib feem ntawm koj tus ntsuj plig los, koj muab nws fij. Nws tsis yog ib qho nyuaj rau kwv yees dab tsi cov rog yeej ib txwm nyob ntawm qhov npaj txhij thiab tsom kwm cov neeg tsis paub qab hau, uas npaj txhij ua kev txhaum loj rau lub luag haujlwm ntawm qee tus txiv leej tub thiab muab ib daig ntawm lawv lub siab tsis txawj tuag. Yog li, nws yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws los tso tseg kev hlub, tsis muaj teeb meem txawm tias lawv yuav zoo li cas. Qhov no yog qhov tsis meej.
Hlub kev nthuav dav ntawm tus luam yeeb. Cov txim nyav
Case ntawm lub neej. Nws paub tias tom qab ua txoj kev hlub nyob rau ntawm luam yeeb, koj yuav tsum khaws nws tsis pub leej twg paub. Tsis muaj leej twg yuav tsum paub tias ib tug neeg twb yeem yeem muab ib qho ntawm nws tus ntsuj plig rau lub hom phiaj ntawm tus yawg uas nws nyiam. Yog li, ib tug ntxhais tsis tau saib xyuas tsis pub lwm tus paub thiab qhia nws cov phooj ywg tias nws tau muab ib tug txiv neej nrog luam yeeb, thiab ntau dua ib zaug. Nws txawm khav tias nws tam sim no muaj lub plawv kub zoo ntawm nws lub xib teg sab laug. Yog li, tus txiv neej no tsis tau pib nyiam nws, nws tsis tau pib qhia ib yam dab tsi uas xav paub. Nws tsuas yog tias nws ob leeg ntawm nws niam nws txiv tuag nyob rau hauv ib hlis. Tus niam mob mob cancer thiab, hauv paus ntsiab lus, nws qhov kev tuag tsis yog qhov ceeb rau leej twg, tab sis leej txiv tau noj qab nyob zoo. Kuv tsuas tsis tuaj yeem muaj sia nyob thaum kuv tus poj niam tuag - kuv lub siab sawv tsis taus nws. Koj tuaj yeem hu rau tsev neeg qhov xwm txheej no yog qhov tshwm sim yooj yim, lossis nws tuaj yeem yog qhov tshwm sim los ntawm kev hlub, yog li nws yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws los sim nyiam tus txiv leej tub uas koj nyiam nyob rau lwm qhov, tsis yog siv mus rau kev ua khawv koob.
